Knowing the specific reasons can save your marriage, whether he stopped sending flowers or stopped going on regular dates. If these things suddenly stop in marriage, you may hate your husband. I understand that you dont feel comfortable allowing her to care for your children. Right? Its a great solution and if you can find the entire building for sale, its actually often cheaper to purchase than a home that would provide you with the same amount of rooms. Living with someone who requires a great deal of care who is incapable of caring for themselves, is very hard. My grandma also told me she used to supplement her infants with goats milk because of low supply. My husband's sister has lived in another state since before I met him. June 18, 2015, 12:13 pm. to change some behaviors, it is better to accept that his flaws will always be part of him. Is it normal to hate your husband? It sounds like the MIL is going to need all of her own money so that she can be taken care of. . It sounds like the husband/son is dropping the ball and not fulfilling his promises to either party. She could have written in about the husband and issues with navigating her MILs care and left everything else out. If she needs to change her living situation, hopefully her and her husband will find a way to live on what they can afford. Stay calm and think it through to evaluate your marriage and. This situation can make you hate your husband and wish you arent together. It could be sitting down with her and going over finances and researching programs she could apply for to help pay for this kind of care (and even contributing to that care if one is in a financial position to do so). And sometimes ill-prepared panicked people arent model human beings who can clearly assess every situation and respond with the appropriate amount of compassion. Yesterday, I received an email from a woman who was overcome with negative emotions. Sylvia Smith loves to share insights on how couples can revitalize their love lives in and out of the bedroom. All rights reserved. Learning what to do when you hate your spouse involves limiting your exposure to crashed and, 7 Ways to Feel Better When Someone Hurts You, When you hate your husband so much, could there be another person? You might say, I hate my husband, because he has hurt you a lot in the past. Be supportive of your husband and understanding as your spouse learns these new traits. He refuses even to consider counseling. Like, angled so that the blade was over the edge of the counter, almost parallel to the counter. I'm laying in bed with our baby and am shaking from anger. My Sisters and I Are Fighting Over My (Living) Mothers Money. June 18, 2015, 1:07 pm. As a result, you begin to project your fears on your husband and marriage. She is not to be left alone for a single second with the baby. Want to have a happier, healthier marriage? June 18, 2015, 10:27 am. 5. Unless she like nailed the knife to the counter and booby trapped the kitchen Indiana Jones style, Im pretty sure you were just annoyed it was left out, which is reasonable, but jesus. He's "nice" and "helpful.". Accept that he can never be the charming prince you see on the television. It was only once I started eating more fruit in my adult life that I started liking sweet treats more. I kept thinking what if you need to be taken care of someday by your husband? 4. Our first responsibility is ALWAYS to our minor children. As much as love brings you together, know that you will face some challenges, such as financial constraints, housing problems, issues about children, etc. June 18, 2015, 10:39 am. Sometimes, we place immense expectations and responsibilities on our partners. I get that living there is hard for you. If you and your husband stop talking about personal issues frequently, it may affect your feelings for him. I loved this response! that you have unconsciously absorbed from your environment. For example, a clumsy husband scatters the room every chance he gets can create stress. And maybe it wouldnt be too hard. Oh, I have no doubt shes overwhelmed. I have made my concerns clear to my husband that I do not want her living with us when we move out. Its easy to shift blame to others. In essence, you can hate something or someone you love from time to time when things dont go your way. However, its just for a short while. Just because he couldn't help it, it doesn't mean you are not angry that he had a stroke . Its all well and good to lecture about having compassion for the stroke victim but LWs first priority needs to be the safety and well being of her minor children. Aubrey Ray I will add that I dont think it is wise to buy a house she cant afford. 5 Ways Lying Destroys Marriages, 15 Ways to Deal With an Unsupportive Partner During Pregnancy, 15 Ways to Know if Theres Enough Physical Intimacy in Your Relationship. I have to agree with all of the people who chimed in about mother sounding like a very typical right hemisphere stroke patient. Its possible to dislike your husband and still love them simultaneously. Turns out my daughter had tried to wake him up for juice, his mom told her not to wake him and that she would get it for her. June 18, 2015, 9:56 am. This is because this attitude of his not only spoils the mood of the people around him but it is also not the same as before. Get her somewhere with regular care or take care of her, just quit using her for her money. And I dont think the anger the commenters are feeling is inappropriate, either. Im now realizing that I misunderstood the promise of LWs husband when I read this earlier and replied. Many wives say, Sometimes I hate my husband. The reason is that their husband stopped paying attention to them. At the very least, youd think if she cared nothing for the MIL, shed have at least cared enough about her 8-year-old daughter (if not herself) to check out the situation before moving in. It doesnt matter if you say, I hate living with my husband. It wont change anything unless you let him know your feelings. It sounds like they are all (MIL included) living in pretty shitty conditions. It wont make him change, and guess what? I promised my mom that she could live in the east wing of my giant mansionguess whatshes not holding me to a promise I made as a child. It will complicate your marriage more. Free housing! Make sure you can support a baby before getting pregnant. If your husband treats you formally and forgets to enjoy your union, you may start hating him. As a writer at Marriage.com, she is a big believer in living consciously and encourages couples to adopt this principle in their lives too. Oh, come on. Hiring live in care, or convincing your MIL to move to an assisted living center nearby where she can be taken care of by people who are equipped to do so may be the most benefical to everyone, particularly her. I am also very sympathetic with the LW. something random Right? February 24, 2017, 11:06 am. Same advice as to what she should do, but different tone. I just cant believe you are perfectly fine using your MIL for a place to live now, when you need her but, youre unwilling to help when she needs you. Before, you considered each others blemishes, and you werent judgmental. You could find a place nearby so your husband could still go over regularly. Wow- LW sounds horrible and whiney, poor husband,he married his mother. Have some compassion and dont treat people like inconveniences when they are helping you out financially. If your husband doesnt care about your opinion or values but only what matters to him, it will cause a rift between you. It makes sense for the letter writer not to delay graduation or accumulate debt or dip into savings during a temporary situation if they were ultimately planning on living with the MIL, anyway. My parents neglected my emotional needs consistently in favour of my more challenging sister. I respect Wendys response, but I think that it may have been too harsh and too quick to judge. Skyblossom How did you get them?? Are you stressed, frustrated, overwhelmed, or confused? I really think they should move out and rent awhile and find an alternative way to take care of the MIL. I think leaving when she no longer needs the financial help from the MIL and washing her hands of it just makes her seem crappy. Its a daunting prospect to consider and I dont blame the letter writer for wanting out (on a purely emotional level). It can pave the way for a better relationship. Duplex is a great idea. You dont write four paragraphs about how terrible you think she is. Now that you are married, you find it challenging to deal with these issues. Sylvia believes that every couple can transform their relationship into a happier, healthier one by taking purposeful and wholehearted action. Research on narcissistic personality disorder would somewhat support this strategy. However, you will stop hating your husband when you acknowledge your role in the situation. But I dont personally feel as much anger towards the letter writer as some of the other commenters. You dont get to complain about the free place youve been crashing in for however many months, no matter how much deep cleaning you had to do to make it livable. Typical lovers arent just intimate with each other; they are also best friends. 2. And honestly maybe not have a baby when you cant afford a place to live? Someone just left it carelessly, is all, and the configuration of the kitchen meant you could come around the corner without seeing it. But before all the commenters go on parade, I will say I can feel from where this letter writer is coming from. I own a duplex with my mom (she lives on one side, we live on the other) and I think that will come in handy years down the road when she needs care but wants to keep her independence. Who the fuck cares? Last night I screamed in frustration and agony from the stupidity of the argument and the overwhelming hurt and loneliness of my feelings. And not because of some grandiose moral notion of kindness, but because not being able to access that compassion makes every single moment of the process strained, draining, and just all around awful for yourself and everyone involved. If your husband doesnt care about your opinion or values but only what matters to him, it will cause a rift between you. Id suggest putting a child gate across the door to grandmas room but grandma might not be able to open and close it and certainly doesnt sound able to step over it. . Fair enough. Telling someone shes a bad person isnt likely to make her take the advice, but reframing the message i in a kinder (but equally blunt) way would make her more likely to take heed. And if Id been pregnant, I definitely would have run into it. Also, they offer proven methods that will save your marriage. For whatever that is worth. She was conscious and present, but she physically had difficulty even just doing that. Raccoon eyes Did they both come up for sale at the same time? June 18, 2015, 10:27 am. For what we have (3 bedrooms, 1 bath on one side, 2 bedrooms, 1 bath on the other and a usable but not completely finished basement on both sides that are the size of the upstairs) we would have paid at least twice as much for a house with the same number of rooms (or even fewer). I am leaving a different comment than the rest.I am on the lw side.It seems like the husband is not really taking that good care of his mother.Just being in the same house does not equal care.I bet most of the care is on the lw.She cannot handle that with being so pregnant and going to school so it looks to me the care this lady really is getting is lacking.First off why are the pee pads just sitting there?Hubby should be picking them up many times a day then scrubbing the floor each time.Why is her room gross?Hubby should be cleaning that daily also.Since he does not work he should be cleaning her whole house daily also.Her hygene is lacking?Hubby should be taking care of that too.I bet the lw does most of the work and is just very overwhelmed.I would not bring a newborn in to that situation right therebut then there is a very scary safety situation with mil wanting to pick up newborn and she falls alot.Then the germs this mil creates with her dirty ways.Hubby is not really taking care of her and I say this because if he really was none of thease things would even be a issue.It is time for the sake of mil being safe and looked after in the right way to be placed somewhere.Also for the baby to be safe.If hubby does not do that no matter how much you love him I would leave if I was her just to keep the baby safe.In the usa this lack of care would be called elder abuse and comes with a jail term.I worked in nurseing homes.Even with staff to help it was the hardest job I ever had. Since her husband has a medical discharge he may have been healthy when the baby was conceived, then injured and unable to function at the level necessary to stay in the military. Understand that many of your expectations before marriage will crumble because living together often shows us their new traits. My husband is wonderful but he seems to believe that since his mother is willing to pay part of the bills when we buy a house that she is needed. Once the wife tables her grievances and apologizes, the couple goes right back to loving each other. I Hate My Husband For Cheating on Me - Tips and Advice That May Help. It ended up being the best thing for her. Why do I feel like I hate my husband? The harsh truth is that you have a vague and unrealistic idea of marriage. And quite frankly, compassion is the best tool in your arsenal when dealing with this type of situation. This woman is living under a mountain of stress in pretty crappy circumstances with inadequate support. You are now together, and you tend to lose the spark you had when dating. Raccoon eyes Working with people in this condition is taxing, so I really cant imagine living with them. And even my husband loves having her nearby. Its another thing to tell her shes a jerk and entitled. And it is stressful and daunting. Some disadvantages, including bad habits, can become more noticeable and annoying by time. The thing is if she wasnt happy she should have moved out. I cant believe how willing you are to drop her without any support vs. setting up support from afar. Ok. No problem. Go right back to when you used to love your husband. You probably hate him because he is flawed. For instance, your partners appreciate kids, but you dont. Dear Wendy In fact, someone else may be a far better option. When spouses dont respect each other, they stop being responsible. While you can encourage your partner to change some behaviors, it is better to accept that his flaws will always be part of him. Nicole They are dependent on him or her and should, and hopefully will, always be their parents' first priority. How come you suddenly dislike your husband or slowly hating my husband? I think there are plenty of valid reasons grown children might choose to distance themselves from their former parents/ caregivers. TaraMonster You might dislike cohabiting with your husband because you dont see him as your friend. Here we were deep cleaning her house, since she let it get really nasty, just so we can live there with my 8-year-old daughter (from a previous relationship), and shes picking arguments with us almost daily for six months. Taking responsibility can help resolve some of the tension between you and your partner. Now If they moved in because he chooses not work right now and they thought it would be easy to just have a free place to crash and that the MIL would be an, easy convenient baby sitter for their kids, then that is something else. They can come several times a week and help the MIL take a bath, wash her hair and change clothes. Yes she had a free place to live, but how free was it considering they payed the bills, bought the groceries and more. Banking on getting a job right after graduation is not a good idea. Maybe a cut would have occured, but not anything as dramatic as the LW presents. Marriage brings two individuals in love together. And I feel bad that this column is being published right when shes having a baby, but this is when she wrote to me. But, she couldnt because financially they needed her to provide a place to live. How? something random The temporary hatred you feel often fades once your husband changes or you get what you want. I for one, aknowledge that these living conditions must be very difficult. Its one thing to say Look, I see youre living in very difficult circumstances, and that the stress of that is probably clouding your judgement. Wendy, I think your column was great advice for this letter writer. What Lies Do to a Marriage? The husband has a responsibility to both children to keep them safe, and that includes not allowing his mother to harm them, even if unintentionally. I find myself, however, drowning in internal protestations of "I deserve to be treated better.". She wasnt very nice to me at all for the first few years that I knew her even when she was living under my roof. June 18, 2015, 5:10 pm. It really puts her in a terrible light, in my opinion. But hatred for ones spouse doesnt surface for no reason. Also, I dont really like my MIL. If it was that awful, she should have put her foot down and moved before now. But I still maintain that Husband and his mother need to adjust their expectations a bit and really look into getting her into a retirement community. Be an adult, support yourself, and if you need help, accept it graciously and compassionately and dont look your gift horse in the mouth (i.e. 7. Some of the over the top descriptions (impaled from a knife on the counter?!? He never has time for you (even when he's home). For instance, you may hate your husband solely because he refuses to stop drinking. But she did and now I cant help feeling for her, a little bit. My FIL (who has been divorced from my MIL for over 40 years) says hes on our side but that my husband made a promise to his mother and that makes it my promise too. honeybeenicki Do you have any unresolved issues with yourself? They feel they are just protecting their vulnerable child, with little awareness of the effect it has had on me and other sis. Otherwise, its bound to bring out hatred in one person. Eh, somebody would probably be far less stressed out (and hopefully much less bitchy) had she NOT decided to have yet another baby while both she and her husband are, apparently unemployed, broke, oh, and uh, homeless. Are you happy within yourself? I didn't care because we were 16 & I kept secrets from my parents too so who cares. I wouldnt either (especially with her issues with falls and a newborn). Also, yeah it totally sucks that MIL had a stroke but having compassion doesnt mean that LW has to subject herself or her children to abuse and unsanitary living conditions. There are ways to work this out without going crazy or ruining your marriage. You complain, complain, complain about everything you have to do for her and how grossed out you are by her and about this horrible promise your husband made to, gasp, care for his ailing mother, but wouldnt you want your kids to show some care for you if you werent able to care for yourself and they were in a position to help out a little? But she married her husband and he comes with her mother. June 18, 2015, 9:53 am. Is this a normal feeling? totally abandon her) as soon as you no longer need what shes been giving. Now that we have a toddler Ive really had to remind my husband about it. They force us to take responsibility for what we're thinking and feeling, which protects others from our blame, guilt and judgment." Examples of I-Statements in romantic relationships: I feel scared when it seems like your family is more important to you than I am. When you approach this you HAVE to have some empathy. Seen how she lived and what the conditions were? She definitely needs to be called on that. ? However, dont dwell much on it. Hey, drama queen, I think you dropped your tiara. Nicole I mean seeing all that T&A surely must have messed him up. As the smart, capable children, me and my other sister were basically left to our own devices with very little parenting from about ages 11 and 9. These differences tend to clash when you dont compromise and make individuals incompatible. When you hate your husband so much, the reason could be because you are unhappy with yourself. Radical thought, I know Sigh. My apologies for my careless reading and commenting. Accept that he can never be the charming prince you see on the television. We don't see mil very often for many reasons. You might hate your husband because he prioritizes only himself. However, things have changed now. Like I was accusing her of being just mean and ugly to my daughter. They are inseparable. June 18, 2015, 10:11 am. Start by making your husband aware of your feelings before taking other steps. It also means you acknowledge these differences and align with them. Its impossible to prepare families for what dealing with a R Hemisphere stroke patient will be like and Ive seen my fair share of long term marriages fall apart when once spouse has this type of stroke. It also sounds like she is doing the care that her husband should be doing seeing how its his mother. No biggie. My point here is that stroke victims are greatly affected by even the most basic of things: cooking, cleaning, taking care of themselves, etc. Copyright 2023 Dear Wendy. Hopefully your children treat you better when you are your MILs age than youre treating your MIL. What does it mean to. And not everyone wants to go around sharing their motives with the strangers of the world. It can happen very rapidly, one day everything is fine then the person is injured and in the hospital and when released they are discharged. (Little sis called CPS on my father at age 14, claiming he was physically abusing her, which is absolutely not true, and put herself in to foster care. Depending on how bad she really is you could already be financially exploiting her and thats elder abuse. We expect it to be a perfect partnership between two individuals in love who are ready to build a home. Not only does she sound like a danger to her grandchildren or anyone else living with her, which youve made clear is your concern, she is a danger to herself. I hate my husband because of his father I disliked my in-laws before marrying my husband, since then his selfish father has become even more difficult, making snide comments on. From your original comment I wouldnt have known. Built in babysitter/dogsitter right next door! Also. If a new spouse cannot accept that, in my humble opinion (IMHO as the new generation says), the relationship is doomed. I hate my husband. Jeez, I think these responses are kind of harsh. I dunno. I think it is important the letter writer is honest with herself and her husband about this before they commit to buying a house. 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